Tuesday, September 30, 2008
Nothing Is Impossible
Friday, September 26, 2008
Are We Hypocrites In God's Eyes?
Now I don't condone someone publicly stating one thing and then doing another, but I have news that shouldn't be a big revelation. WE ARE ALL HYPOCRITES. It's called being sinners. There is a segment of society that believes if they don't publicly give an opinion or state their values then they are free from being labeled a hypocrite.
To anyone who doesn't think they're not a hypocrite ask them if they strive each day to do good, to do the best job they can, lead honest lives. Now ask them if they have failed in their attempt. They answer will be yes so does that make them a hypocrite? They said they wanted to good, but instead they did wrong.
I decided to go to Websters Dictionary and to God's Word and see how hypocrite is defined and used. Websters has two definitions. 1. a person who puts on a false appearance of virtue or religion and 2. a person who acts in contradiction to his or her stated beliefs or feelings. I would say the world operates under the second definition the most. It loves to point to the Ted Haggard's and Rush Limbaugh's of the world for their failures in acting in a way that says we would be better off not offering an opinion on any moral matter lest we might fail in it.
Now when people of influence offer an opinion and even offer one strongly there is no question credibility is lost. Are they being hypocritical? Yes, but it is the credibility of the person, not the message, that is damaged so we need to leave room for repentance and strive to do better the next time with the Lord's help.
What does the Lord say about being a hypocrite? Jesus makes several references when He makes an emphatic point." "You hypocrite, first take the log out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to take the speck out of your brother's eye." Matthew 7:5. "Woe to you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites, because you devour widows' houses, and for a pretense you make long prayers ; therefore you will receive greater condemnation." Matthew 23:14
These verses go on and on and you can see in the Word that Jesus is usually talking to the scribes and Pharisees. The Greek word for hypocrite in its context is hupokrites and one of its meaning is an actor or stage player. People acting in dramas would wear masks to cover themselves to not show their true self.
This is the definition we need to be more careful not to be falling into. Are we acting all Godly on Sundays raising hands to worship Him and then dishonoring Him Monday through Saturday by the way we live out our lives. Being a Godly hypocrite is showing yourself to be more public than private. Do we publicly pray for the culture to get better and then privately view internet porn? Do we need accolades when we do ministry or are we happy to know that God knows?
We all know we fall short of God's glorious standard, but when we mess up confess up and be quick to note if others know your sin that we're not trying to change the rules or the standards. Don't fall into the trap that says, "Everyone is doing it" or "Nobody's perfect." We have a standard to follow so let's keep striving for it and not look to lower the bar or our expectations. The Lord will honor our efforts.
Amen!!
Monday, September 22, 2008
Repent
Friday, September 19, 2008
Is It Okay To Discrimate?
2: to distinguish by discerning or exposing differences ; especially : to distinguish from another like object
1 a: to make a distinction
2: to make a difference in treatment or favor on a basis other than individual merit
I don't know why it is when I have a thought and I think it's profound and then it's affirmed somewhere else I get so excited. This happened this past week while reading the book, Vintage Jesus, by Mark Driscoll. Driscoll is a pastor of a church in the Seattle area and a friend recently turned me on to him. I link to his blog in my favorites.
I have often said that will all the talk about discrimination and how bad it is that we all discriminate in some form every day. Now granted, we mostly hear about discrimination when it comes to race and I'm not condoning that, but Driscoll in his book says that discrimination in and of itself is not such a bad thing, but often it becomes sinfully applied. His reference is to John 14:6 where Jesus says, "I am the way the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me."
Part of the definition of discriminate is discernment or good judgment. We need to discriminate every day. A few questions to ponder. If a stranger was to come to your door and ask to come in would you let him? When you have a dinner party do you make sure your guest list is perfectly balanced by gender and race? If your 15-year-old daughter had a date pull up in a Porsche convertible would you let her go out with him?
The answer to these questions is probably no. Does that mean you're discriminating against people that drive nice cars and you hate strangers? Again, no because you are using good judgment and safety issues could be involved.
Here's where my view is probably a lot different than the world's. I believe God's clear distinction in the human race is that He has made us male and female. While there may be different cultural distinctions between races and sexual orientations, I see the gender difference as being clear.
Though men and women are both loved equally by Him, we are not the same. After 21 years of marriage and living with a teenage daughter, I know full well men and women don't speak the same, we don't think the same and we don't act the same. Neither is better than the other, just different.
My wife recently came back from a conference at the Honda Center called, "Women of Faith." There was probably 15,000 women in attendance because it was an event geared towards women. Were they discriminating, male-hating women because they didn't invite men? No, because it was geared for the target audience of women just as Promise Keepers is geared towards men. Now if these conferences didn't allow hispanic or African-Americans that would be a different story.
I sometimes play golf with a friend at local club that is for men only. This is a little tougher? Is this discrimination? I still say no, although a club that I couldn't bring my wife to play would not be one that I would want to join. Now a golf club is a business and I would fully support if someone wanted to open a golf club for women only.
My point here is we all need to show good judgment and discriminate in our choices and selections. We need to be careful in how we make them and that they are not based on any pre-conceived notion or stereotype. I believe safety is always a concern and we know we have to answer to the Lord for our judgements.
What about God and Christians? We always hear that we're narrow-minded and discriminating because we believe Jesus is the only way to God. When it comes to answering our critics a proper response would be that since God allows us to pick and choose who we hang out with and invite into our homes why can He not have the same luxury?
When our doorbell rings we don't usually let someone in who doesn't know the owner. It's our house and don't we make the rules? I think anything less for God in deciding who comes into heaven is a little selfish on our parts. But hear is the kicker that shows that God is anything, but discriminating.
He sends his invitation to come into His home to everyone. It doesn't matter if you are rich or poor, black, white or Hispanic, marital status or if your gay or straight. If we acknowledge the Owner of the Kingdom and repent of our sins we can all come in and join the celebration. I don't think that would fly in our homes if someone came to the door and said they knew who you were and really liked you and would you let them in now?
May we all discriminate with the proper discernment and remember that God is more inclusive that any organization or club could ever be. He loves everyone and He wants us all to know His Son, the One that will bring us all into His glorious presence.
Monday, September 15, 2008
The Bottom Line
Saturday, September 13, 2008
Roseville Couple Alters Marriage License
Judy and I love to talk politics. We love to go back and forth about the issues, the people involved in the campaigns, the cable news commentators. Sometimes, we have to scale back from the tv coverage and just switch to to home improvement shows instead. We also have many friends that tell us they hate to talk politics so they barely know it's an election year.
This year is not one of those years that we can afford to "sit this one out." Besides the all-important presidential election we have another one of those California Propositions to vote on that's about as big as it get for us. It's Proposition 8 and it's called the Marriage Amendment. It's simple, about 14 words, stating that only a marriage between a man and a woman is valid or recognized in California.
Can you believe that it's come to this? A union that was ordained by God in the garden between Adam and Eve has come down to a vote that must pass or we'll see another chip away at the family that we have know for, well, forever. I have an example of some people who know this firsthand and have found out the hard way that our society is changing and not for the better.
Judy has a friend who lives in Sacramento and she has a son who got married at the end of August. When the marriage license was filled out it listed Party A and Party B where it's always been groom and bride. So the groom filled in his info in the party A section, but he hand wrote in groom crossing out the party A and he crossed out party B and wrote bride where his fiancee filled in her info.
They went ahead and got married. The bride's dad is a pastor and married them, but in the last week they were notified by the state that since they altered the application there license is invalid and they are not legally married in the eyes of the state. This means she can't change her name yet or join his benefits on a health plan as his wife. Now in God's eyes they are married, but nonetheless, they still have this hurdle.
Their story has made the news in Northern California and it's in the video above. I've posted my first you tube video. Woo hoo!!!
I'm not sure the route they're going to take, but the point is this is what its come down to. Everything that we have considered normal and have taken for granted as God-ordained or common sense is being thrown out the window and we now have to fight for.
For our friends who don't like to talk politcs, its becoming a lot less about politics and lot more about righteousness. We can't afford not to be kept abreast of what's going on in Washington and Sacramento. Talking politics in a way is more like defending our faith and what we hold to be truth. God's truth.
If you're at all like me, you have to be frustrated. We vote on these "big" proposition issues when they come our way and then a few months later a judge overturns the "will of the people" and claims it's "unconstitutional." It's discouraging, but we can't give up. God calls us to not run from our culture, but rather engage it and make a difference.
We can't sit out November 4 and do nothing. We need to vote again and again for marriage the way God has laid it out. Be ready to defend your position if asked by a neighbor or a work associate and pray that God will stir in the hearts of those sitting on the fence.
Tuesday, September 9, 2008
Time With The Lord, It's Worth The Effort
Friday, September 5, 2008
Compassion Needed Everywhere
Now, why would this be? The obvious answer was the chance to see what the federal government's response would be three years after Katrina. Side note thought that came to me the other day: Do you realize that we personalize a hurricane more than babies in the womb by nature of naming these storms? You mention Katrina and everyone what you're talking about like it's a person, but the unborn is so often relegated to fetus status. Just a thought.
As I was watching all these people evacuating New Orleans I couldn't help but think about the flooding that took place in Texas earlier this year or the fires we had this year and last in California. I don't recall the outpouring of concern from the media about the loss of these people's homes.
Let's face it. If a person loses his home to fire, flood or earthquake it becomes that person's Katrina. A home lost to someone in San Diego is as devasting to someone in New Orleans. I'm ashamed to say that this country has now gone political correctness in the arena of weather. The Bible is very clear that we are to have compassion for everyone. Not just those of certain races or political parties or financial postion.
The Apostle Paul tells the Corinthian church. "All praise to God, the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ. God is our merciful Father and the source of all comfort. He comforts us in all our troubles so that we can comfort others. When they are troubled, we will be able to give them the same comfort God has given us." 2 Corinthians 1:3-4.
I'm not against helping those in New Orleans, but God is calling us to be compassionate to all people. If we see someone in need and He calls us to help them, then help them. Our ability to comfort others comes from the Lord. The verse above says He is the source of all comfort. We are just fortunate to be a tool or instrument to be used in the process. Praise God for the opportunity!
I love this verse because it says we are not just to be consumers of compassion. God sends people our way when we need and He expects us to show compassion to others when the opportunity presents itself. Call it a "pay it forward" kind of thing. Now that doesn't mean that the person we show compassion to will necessarily be the one who comforts us later. That would trap us into thinking we're doing good deeds with a catch. May that not be our though.
We should always look to others that God puts in our path or our hearts to lend a hand. So the next time you see a family that's house is burned down or is carried away in a mudslide let's be empathetic and compassionate to their situation. Who knows, we never know when we'll need a hand ourselves.